Support

You don’t have to hold it alone.

If you or anyone else is in danger now, call 999. These are the services Kay can vouch for personally, each checked on its own website on 21 October 2026.

1Helplines

WhoForCallWhen
Emergency servicesAnyone in danger now. If you can’t speak, call 999 and press 55 when asked999Any time
SamaritansAnyone struggling116 123Any time, free
National Domestic Abuse Helpline, run by RefugeWomen facing abuse at home0808 2000 247Any time, free
Victim SupportAnyone affected by crime, in England and Wales; live chat too08 08 16 89 111Any time, free
MindInformation about mental health; not a crisis line0300 123 3393Mon to Fri, 9 to 6
Women’s AidWomen facing domestic abuse, by live chat or email rather than phoneLive chatOn their website

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